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What do you really want?

What do you really want?

We’re told we should be aspiring for the fancy car, the mansion home, Gucci accessories and all that kind of stuff. But what do you REALLY want?

Are you falling for the almighty marketing machine telling you what you should want or do you have your own thoughts?

We all have our own world view, we all see the world, our surroundings and the events happening around us depending on our own experiences and beliefs. The problem is that we can also be massively influenced by the messages we are bombarded with every day from the media, the news and social media.

When we listen to all that crap we cease to be a Jedi with a mind of steel and become the janitor at the Jedi offices who has let himself go and possesses the mind of a weakling!

It’s time to rebel! Rebel against the conditioning, rebel against the programming and ask ourselves what we REALLY want!

Set your goals around what you truly want in your heart, not what you’re told you should want!

When we set unrealistic goals that aren’t linked to our heart, we set ourselves up for failure and that leads us to stress, sadness and at worst, depression.

“I want a Porsche!”…. but do you REALLY want that or is that what you think you should want?

“I want that Gucci handbag!”…. again, do you REALLY want it or do you want the name because you think it makes you look successful?

When we begin to set our true goals we become more focused in achieving them because we have that emotional connection with them.

So, stop buying into the BS and start listening to your true self!

Darren Danks

Darren is The Self Doubt Coach. He helps you to break through the blocks that are holding you back, he cheerleads your successes and pushes you to be a better you. He has been British archery champion, holder of 9 national records and coached other archers to push through a mindset block called target shyness.

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